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Doin it Daily - Come As You Are Sex Toy Sale

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Choosing sex toys is an entirely subjective activity.  We think that there is something pretty great about all of the sex toys we carry, but once in a while there's something that blows-the-socks (or something else) off of our reviewer, and we've created this page for those few toys that really impress us.

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Toys

Aslan Jaguar Harness
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Aslan Jaguar Harness
Aslan's Jaguar was an instant classic when it was revealed a few years ago. This is the Jaguar that started it all. Made from soft and supple garment leather, the Jaguar's D-rings allow for easy leg strap adjustment and comfortable wearing. Best of all, this harness is sexy-as-hell. Medium fits approximately 29"-45", large fits approximately 32" - 52". | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $90.00

Aslan Leather Minx Corset Harness
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Aslan Leather Minx Corset Harness
Wear something special for Valentine's this year! Aslan Leather's Minx harness is a hot corset-style harness that combines the incredible dildo-harnessing capabilities of the classic Aslan Jaguar harness with an unbelievably sexy lace-up corset back. If you already have an Aslan Leather Jaguar Harness in your tickle-trunk, the corset back can be purchased as an upgrade! | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $165.00

Aslan Leather Tongue Paddle
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Aslan Leather Tongue Paddle
Aslan Leather's Tongue Paddle delivers a solid, thuddy slap every time! Featuring a leather-covered handle and a heavy oil tan leather tongue, this high-quality paddle is well constructed and will last a long, long time. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $65.00

Coupler
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Coupler
The do-it-yourself double header! The coupler is wonderfully simple accessory that allows you to attach any two dildos with a flared base. Perfect for couples who prefer different sizes, or folks who just want to be able to use their favourite dildos in a new way! Made of neoprene. Dildos sold separately. | more

| $14.00

Double T Lycra Short Cut Binder - Black
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Double T Lycra Short Cut Binder - Black
These binders made by a trans-owned company in Taiwan specializing in making binders for FtMs. Made of very comfortable spandex and lycra, these compression vests feature an under-arm velcro enclosure for superior adjustability. Double T binders are exceptionally well made and because they are made for transmen, they tend to fit well and discreetly under clothing.

For help with sizing, please view our How to Choose a Binder article. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $70.00

Eros 100 ml
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Eros 100 ml
Our premium silicone based lubricant, Pjur is ideal for use in water and for anyone looking for a long lasting lube. Unlike water-based lubes, Pjur will never become tacky and gets even more slippery when wet! Great for massage.

Ingredients: dimethicone, dimethiconol, cyclomethicone Silicone lubes are completely condom compatible, but not for use with silicone toys. | more

| $26.00

Erotic Magnetic Poetry Kit
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Erotic Magnetic Poetry Kit
Ever wanted to leave a sexy note for your lover but couldn't find the right words to say? Well, look no further because the Erotic Magnetic Poetry Kit has it all! With over 400 magnetized words that are extremely and exquisitely naughty, you can be sure that your partner will feel the heat radiating from your biggest erogenous zone - your mind! Stick it on your fridge and free your creativity! | more

| $22.95

Fleshlight Vibro
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Fleshlight Vibro
We've loved The Fleshlight since the beginning for their realistic feeling and phthalate-free men's toys, and they just keep giving us reasons to love them more. With the launch of the Fleshlight Vibro, Fleshlight has added a whole new dimension of pleasure to their best-selling line of men's masturbation toys. Featuring three strategically-placed one-touch bullets, the Fleshlight Vibro provides vibration at the opening for maximum stimulation. Available currently in pink vulva ("pink lady") style. As with all Fleshlights, additional styles and sleeves can be special ordered from Come As You Are. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $100.00

Fun Factory Gigolo G2
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Fun Factory Gigolo G2
The next generation of Fun Factory vibes is here: more powerful and more fun! Your favourite silicone man-about-town now comes in a stronger, splash-proof version. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $80.00

Fun Factory Share
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Fun Factory Share
Designed for use with or without an accompanying harness; those with strong PC muscles will find Fun Factory's Share Double Dildo easy to use and hold on to without a harness, while the smooth and ergonomic curves on this toy also ensure that it fits well within a harness. This is also a great toy for folks who really want to 'feel' their dildo during sex. Smaller insertable portion measures 4 1/2" x 1 3/4" | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $110.00

Happy Valley Lucky
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Happy Valley Lucky
Are you feeling Lucky? You will! Lucky is the first super-realistic toy from our favourite local dildo artizans at Happy Valley. Made with love and silicone, Lucky feels like your favourite cyberskin toy, but is totally boilable, phthalate-free and harness compatible to boot! | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $90.00

Hathor Aphrodisia Lubricant 4 oz
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Hathor Aphrodisia Lubricant 4 oz
New! Hathor lube in a squeeze bottle! A lubricant made for skipping through the daisies! Hathor Aphrodisia pure lube is organically sourced, contains Horny Goat Weed and feels soft like velvet. This water-based lube is unscented, unflavoured and non-sticky. Made with love in Canada.

Ingredients: de-ionized water, acacia gum, vegetable propylene glycol, jujuba zizyphus, siberian ginsing, horny goat weed, ascorbic acid
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| $18.00

Hathor Love Oil 4oz
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Hathor Love Oil 4oz
Pamper your skin with the oils of Ylang Ylang, Sandlewood, Ginger, Cinnamon, and Geranium lovingly combined in the Hathor Aphrodisia Love Oil. Create a romantic mood for yourself and bask in the scent of this excellent Love Oil. | more

| $25.00

Hitachi Magic Wand Massager
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Hitachi Magic Wand Massager
One of the few "brand names" in sex toys, the Hitachi Magic Wand is our bestselling vibrator. With a soft, tennis-ball-sized head and pulsating vibrations, this toy is a favourite for both solo and partner play. Two speeds. This item is currently out of stock | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $70.00

IntimateRider
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IntimateRider
The IntimateRider was designed to make sex and sex positions easier especially for folks who find movement in some positions difficult. Only a very small amount of upper body movement or force starts the IntimateRider's gentle rocking motion and precision bearings ensure a smooth ride. This extremely durable design provides excellent back support, has adjustable height, and is incredibly stable and well-balanced. You can view additional information and see the IntimateRider in action on the IntimateRider website. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $495.00

Je Joue G-Ki
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new item Je Joue G-Ki
Je Joue is one sex toy maker that manages to blow our collective minds with each and every sex toy they make. Je Joue's latest creation is the multi-speed, waterproof g-spot vibrator G-Ki. However, and like all of Je Joue's inventions to date, to call G-Ki vibrator is an massive understatement. The G-Ki vibrates, but it also bends two spots to ensure that you get to your g-spot, and it holds its position to keep the vibration where you want it! G-Ki is also rechargeable, but uses a magnetic charger to enable use and cleaning underwater. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $105.00

Lelo Nea
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Lelo Nea
More than just a rechargeable vibrator, the Lelo Nea is a true object of pleasure. Decorated with a delicate floral motif and glossy finish, this tiny vibrator has reliable, button-controlled variable speed, up to seven hours of usage from one charge and comes complete with a one-year warranty. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $95.00

LifeStyles Skyn
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LifeStyles Skyn
At long last, a non-latex condom that’s affordable and provides protection equal to latex. Let us introduce you to LifeStyles SKYN, condoms made of stretchy polyisoprene to provide a more comfortable and custom fit than traditional polyurethane non-latex condoms at half the cost. | more

| $15.00

Liquid Silk 250 ml
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Liquid Silk 250 ml
This amazing lube from the U.K. never gets sticky. Contains vitamin E, with a slightly bitter taste.

Ingredients: Water, Propylene Glycol, Dimethicone, Cellulose Polymer, Polysorbate 60, Sorbitan Stearate, Cetearyl Alcohol, Glyceryl Stearate NSE, BNPD, Disodium EDTA, Phenoxyethanol, Methyl Paraben, Butyl Paraben, Ethyl Paraben, Propyl Paraben, B.H.T. | more

| $18.00

Nobessence Tryst
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On Sale Item Nobessence Tryst
You’ll have more than just a mere Tryst with these stylish sustainable wood dildos from NobEssence. Totally waterproof, non-toxic and easy to clean, their almost-patented inert polymer wood finish will keep your Tryst non-porous and will defy everything you thought you knew about wood. Each piece is handcrafted out of a unique piece of sustainable exotic hardwood, so colours and sizes will vary. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $100.00 , Reduced from $170.00

Pack-Man
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Pack-Man
Is that a new packer in your pants, or are you just happy to see us? Maybe it’s both, since there’s definitely a new packer in town. We were feeling a need for a more affordable but still durable packer, and one that would give us a colour selection, so we turned to our local dildo manufacturer, Happy Valley and asked them to turn our dreams into reality. | more

| $40.00

Pink Pixie
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Pink Pixie
Another great high-quality dual-function Japanese vibrator, the Pink Pixie is most remarkable for its ingenious design. The Pixie vibrates internally, but also features a curved tip that moves up and down to stimulate the g-spot. Made of high-quality ‘elastomer’ rubber, this toy is an instant staff favourite. Phthalate-free. This item is currently out of stock | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $76.00

Pink Silicone Lubricant 4oz
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Pink Silicone Lubricant 4oz
This silicone based lube is what women have been waiting for! Formulated with Dimethicone, the highest grade of silicone, Vitamin E and Aloe Vera, Pink provides a clean, fresh, moisturizing approach to personal lubrication. This unique formula reduces the possibility for infection or allergic reactions. And, it cleans up easily! Pink’s sophisticated hand-blown Italian glass bottle, both elegant and discreet, fits right in with other items on your dressing table or bathroom counter. You’ll almost hope someone notices! | more

| $28.00

Pleasure Feather
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Pleasure Feather
Add a little sensuality to your sex life this winter! These feathers won't keep you warm, but they'll sure heat things up! | more

| $8.00

RiderMate
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RiderMate
The RiderMate is the stationary accessory for the IntimateRider. Made of the same easy-to-clean and durable materials as the IntimateRider. You can view additional information about the RiderMate at the IntimateRider website. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $150.00

Rock Chick!
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Rock Chick!
Fresh from our friends in the U.K., this awesome hands-free toy from the other side of the pond has a unique design that lets you stimulate your g-spot while providing enough vibration for clitoral fun! Waterproof and silicone, the Rock Chick is super-easy to clean and is ready for fun in the water! Includes batteries. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $70.00

Rosebud Crystal Plug Large
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Rosebud Crystal Plug Large
These steel plugs are stylish, smooth and the ultimate in functional luxury butt jewelery. Each crystal plug is made of body-safe stainless steel and features an elongated stem to keep it solidly in place. As well, these plugs are beautifully adorned with a genuine Swarovski crystal to give you an anal sex experience that looks as good as it feels. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $110.00

Shunga Chocolate Body Paint
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Shunga Chocolate Body Paint
Smooth and rich chocolate body paint with a light and feathery paintbrush to make any evening sensual and decadent. Art, chocolate, and sex...what a great combination! | more

| $14.00

Sinvention Classic Wrist Restraints
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Sinvention Classic Wrist Restraints
Incredibly sexy and durable, these classic leather restraints are made of solid belt leather, strong welded hardware and comes with locking buckles. Strong welded hardware and rounded and dyed edges. Darn affordable too! | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $56.00

Sinvention Pony Bit Rubber
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Sinvention Pony Bit Rubber
Get it on with authentic and high-quality pony play gear. Durable rubber bit is held in place with heavy-duty metal hardware and handmade leather straps. Made with love here in Canada by Sinvention. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $54.00

SpareParts Jock Harness (Size A)
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SpareParts Jock Harness (Size A)
The SpareParts jock-strap-style harness is made of spandex and polyester harness to stretch and conform to your body. Strong and sturdy enough for the most enthusiastic strap-on play, this harness is entirely waterproof, machine-washable, and will accomodate any dildo up to 2" wide. Perfect for packing, this revolutionary harness also features an interior pouch (perfect for a mini vibe!), will accommodate double headed dildos, and is completely adjustable for a perfect fit every time! Size A fits hips 20" - 50". | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $105.00

Splash
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Splash
A curvaceous vibe with a strong buzz, a beautiful smooth translucent aqua finish, and a tapered tip. This slim, hard plastic vibe is perfect for splashing around this summer, or any season! | more

| $28.00

The Earth Angel
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The Earth Angel
Earth Angel, will you be mine? Ireland's first official sex toy is also one of the most ingenious. Made of 100% recyclable materials and packaging, The Earth Angel gets charged by winding the handle (like those wind-up radios!). Perfect for hard-core campers, off-grid types, surviving black-outs, or anyone who wants to get off anytime, anywhere. Every four minutes of winding provides approximately 30 minutes of 100% guilt-free, multi-speed bliss. The Earth Angel can also be charged via USB or with an external charger (not included). | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $95.00

Tuyo Vibromasseur
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Tuyo Vibromasseur
This magnificent orb is one of the most unique vibrators to roll across our desk! The Tuyo Vibromasseur features five intense patterns of vibration and three different speeds all in a sexy and discreet package. Made of phthalate-free hard plastic, silicone and a glamourous stainless steel ring, the Tuyo is splashproof and each one comes with a satin-lined case for storage almost as sexy as the Tuyo itself. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $70.00

Tweezer Clamps with Bell
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Tweezer Clamps with Bell
Make some noise tonight with these classic tweezer clamps!! Each clamp is attached to a charming bell - the more you move around, the louder they'll be! | more

| $22.00

Vixen Gee Whizzard
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Vixen Gee Whizzard
Take your Hitachi Magic Wand to the next level! The Gee Whizzard turns your external-use-only wand into the perfect penetration machine. Perfect for g-spot stimulation. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $65.00

Vixen Nexus
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Vixen Nexus
Made specifically for use in a harness, the Nexus offers something for everyone. It can also be used without a harness as a double-headed toy. One side measures 6" by 1 1/2", the other 4 7/8" by 1 1/6". This item is currently out of stock | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $100.00

Books

Best Bondage Erotica
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Best Bondage Erotica
Edited by Alison Tyler
If you’ve ever fantasized about being held down by your lover's command, being tied up, or having a hidden bondage room in the depths of your house, this is the collection for you! Wonderfully captivating stories such as ‘Selling Point’, ‘The Perfect O’, and ‘Moving’ are irresistible. A fantastic gift for a kinky friend, or something to treat yourself with, Best Bondage Erotica won’t disappoint. This item is currently out of stock |
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| $21.50

Blood and Silver
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Blood and Silver
Erotic Stories
By Patrick Califia
Combining some of the best stories of much-loved erotic writer Patrick Califia, Blood and Silver is wicked, wild and very subversive. Gathered from his two previous out-of-print collections Melting Point and No Mercy, these stories still hold their ground today, and offer the reader a strange and daring ride into a world full of hot bikers, dangerous sex, and love without mercy. 275pp. |
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| $18.50

Bust Magazine
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Bust Magazine
"The Magazine for girls who have something to get off their chest." Consistently smart, funny, and sexy content, Bust flies off our shelves every time we get it in. | more

| $6.99

Erotic Massage Deck
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Erotic Massage Deck
Marrying ancient Eastern wisdom with modern know-how, the Erotic Massage Deck is the ultimate bedside companion for adventurous lovers. Ideal for the novice or the expert, these 50 sensual techniques can be explored one at a time or combined for an evening of intimate passion. | more

| $19.95

Exposed
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Exposed
Erotic Fiction of Alison Tyler
By Alison Tyler
Leaving little to the imagination, this book will take you away to a place where sex isn’t the only thing that turns you on. Through her vivid descriptions of each scene, Exposed feels more like a novel than a number of amazing short stories. Perfect for someone who finds erotica too much about sex, and not enough about the rush we all get from being exposed. 219pp. |
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| $18.50

Female Ejaculation and The G-Spot
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Female Ejaculation and The G-Spot
Not your mother's orgasm book!
By Deborah Sundahl
This one of a kind educational handbook covers a mass of topic related to female ejaculation including anatomy, workshops, history, exercises, and many many more. An excellent resouce for anyone interested in exploring female ejaculation and the g-spot. One of the most complete, informed and detailed books around on female ejaculation. 217 pages. This item is currently out of stock |
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| $22.95

Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot
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Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot
The notorious female erogenous zone is the subject of this clear and informative guide, covering such topics as general female anatomy, ejaculation, g-spot orgasms and the PC muscle. 1998. 63 pp. This item is currently out of stock | more

| $11.95

How I Adore You
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How I Adore You
A collection of stories by Mark Pritchard, that graphically explores sexual taboos and cultural mores. Explicitly complex for the avid erotica reader. This collection will challenge many boundaries - although fantastically well-written. 2001. 201 pp. | more

| $18.50

I Love Female Orgasm
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I Love Female Orgasm
An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide
By Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller
Our book buyer just added this to her list of must have books! I Love Female Orgasm offers detailed advice and information on everything female orgasm. From intercourse, having your first orgasm, sex toys, queer women’s sexuality, and a whole chapter for men plus tips, tips and more tips. 286pp. |
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| $19.95

Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook
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Intercourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook
The perfect gift for the gourmet, Intercourses 10th Anniversary Edition is bursting with over 200 pages of aphrodisiac recipes and beautiful photographs. Why not curl up by the fire while munching on some chocolate torte dressed with berries? Or try your luck with some sexy honey drenched figs. Either way this book is sure to keep the home fires burning. Hardcover. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $40.95

Lickety Split
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Lickety Split
A pansexual smut zine dedicated to encouraging sex positive expression and thought. A fantastic creation from Montreal that brings together indie sex and culture, collaborative art making, and sexy musings. Smart and arty while sexy to boot! Our favorite and most loved zine around! Volume 7. | more

| $8.50

Master Han's Daughter
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On Sale Item Master Han's Daughter
Tales From Depraved NeoTokyo
By Midori
One of our favorite sex educators and bondage teachers, Midori, brings us her newest fiction offering--and it was worth the wait! Master Han’s Daughter vividly describes the world of NeoToyko where cyberpunks, pharmaceutical companies, sex workers and Japanese traditions collide to create explicit erotic stories where sex is everything but simple. At times dark and tormented but always with a dash of humour, these characters offer up an erotic pallet both beautiful and violent. A distopic future brimming with sexuality and new erotic possibilities! 122 pp. |
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| $10.50 , Reduced from $13.99

My Gender Workbook
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My Gender Workbook
This is a great book for anyone starting to question the role of gender in our society. Written with a twist, the language, exercises and quizzes offer great resources and insights for anyone just beginning to challenge the boxes gender confines us in or a great start for friends and families of gender outlaws who just want to learn more. 292 pages. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $41.50

New View of a Woman's Body
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New View of a Woman's Body
By Federation of Feminist Women's Health Center
A bold perspective, new information and thorough illustrations on women's sexual and reproductive capacities distinguish this book. Emerging from the women's health movement, it includes topics such as self-examination, home remedies, menstrual extraction- as well as a redefinition of the function and structure of the clitoris that will enthrall you. 1991. 174 pp |
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| $25.00

Sex In The System
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Sex In The System
Stories of Erotic Futures, Technological Stimulation, and the Sensual Life of Machines
Edited by Cecilia Tan
Science and the erotic meet in this ode to the future. A dense collection filled with great writers like M. Christian and Jennifer Stevenson. With nary a stale story in the bunch, you will be delightfully surprised by each tale. Great for both science fiction readers and those who prefer to be earth bound, we guarantee that anyone looking for fresh erotic writing that seeks to explore new territories around sex, sexuality and gender will be very pleased! 283pp. |
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| $20.50

Shadow & Light vol. 4
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Shadow & Light vol. 4
In Volume Four of this series, Quinn spices it up by inviting four of his female friends to narrate the story of an outrageous, real-life sexual adventure they have had. These women unabashedly share their wild and steamy tales, sparing no raunchy detail, while Quinn's lush, sensuous and detailed graphics provide the perfect visual accompaniment to their voices. The scenes of domination & submission, afternoon trysts, group scenes and marital infidelity common to Quinn's work take on a new level of realism--because this time they're true! This item is currently out of stock | more

| $10.95

She's On Top
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She's On Top
Erotic Stories of Female Dominance and Male Submission
By Rachel Kramer Bussel
Strong, powerful and sexy, this anthology leaves nothing to the imagination. Filled with erotic stories of dominant women, these stories by Alison Tyler, Saskia Walker, N.T. Morley and many more will have you yearning for the crack of the whip. In Kristina Wright's The Mistress Meets Her Match, a dominatrix losses her libido but finds it again when she allows herself to become sexual with a client. Each story is a page turner that will have you mentally matching your high heeled pumps to your black leather mini and your new whip! 220pp. |
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| $21.50

Slave to Love
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Slave to Love
Sexy Tales of Erotic Restraint
Edited by Alison Tyler
Deliciously delectable and diverse, Slave to Love offers a fantastic assortment of stories both sweet and romantic or intense and taboo-driven. Never the same style or scenario, this collection provides a real spectrum of submissive and dominate desires. These characters challenge and break bounders, allowing readers into their world to both explore and fantasize alongside. Great for those new to power play, or those just looking for some great new fiction! 221 pp. |
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| $19.50

Sweetlife
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Sweetlife
Edited by Violet Blue
A Collection of Erotica for Couples is exactly what it claims to be. This inspirational book delves deep into the fantasies and desires that come with couplehood. Written by sex educator Violet Blue. Heterosexual focus. This item is currently out of stock |
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| $19.95

The Good Vibrations Complete Guide to Vibrators
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The Good Vibrations Complete Guide to Vibrators
By Joani Blank
Joani Blank, founder of the woman-owned sex shop Good Vibrations, has compiled her years of experience into this, indeed, the complete guide to vibrators. Confounded by the plethora of possibilities? This guide outlines all the different types of vibrators available, as well as their care and use during solo or partner sex. 2000. 96 pp. |
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| $14.00

The New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
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The New Good Vibrations Guide to Sex
By Cathy Winks, Anne Semans
We highly recommend this guide for its thoroughness, intelligence and near-universal appeal. Written by two former worker-owners at Good Vibrations (our inspiration, and our sister sex store in San Francisco), this guide covers all the basics - oral sex, communication, masturbation, vibrators, and more - in detail plus it takes a look at issues of sex in society. Winks and Semans have heard it all and the answer to any question you may have about sex is likely to be found between these covers! Updated 3rd edition! 2002. 325 pp. |
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| $34.95

The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
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The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
By Fetish Diva Midori
Written by one of our favourite sex educators, Fetish Diva Midori, this book offers serious, step by step instruction, that anyone can follow. Great photographs and excellent instructional diagrams. 163 pp. |
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| $39.25

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
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The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
By Tristan Taormino
This friendly, forthright guide rips the lid off the myth that women don't enjoy anal sex. With quotes from erotic literature, real-life women, and fun illustrations, this guides covers all the bases, including anatomy, health and safety, emotional and psychological issues, toys, genderplay, and the myriad ways that anal eroticism can be expressed. Also available: Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women vol. 1 and 2 DVDs and Expert Guide to Anal Sex DVD directed by Tristan Taormino, sold separately. 151 pp. |
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| $22.95

The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
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The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
For all of us who live with disabilities, chronic pain & illness
By Miriam Kaufman, M.D., Cory Silverberg and Fran Odette
Just when you thought the "ultimate guide" series might be running out of subjects, here comes the Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability - the most interesting and important title in the series. This ultimate guide is most notable for its frank and practical chapters discussing self-esteem, communication, sexual positions, S/M, sexual health, tantric sex and it also features an incredible resources chapter. This is a thoughtful and thorough book and we recommend it to anyone who is seeking to learn a little more about their body or mind.
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| $19.95

Ultimate Guide to Strap On Sex
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Ultimate Guide to Strap On Sex
By Karlyn Lotney
Everything you ever wanted to know about harnesses, dildos, lube, and more. Lotney gives you the goods on self-stimulation, positions, packing in this guide - plus a special section for men using strap-ons. 2000. 177 pp. |
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| $19.50

Urban Tantra
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Urban Tantra
Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
By Barbara Carrellas
Finally, the book for people who want to learn about Tantric sex but can’t find the time! Urban Tantra, by Barbara Carrellas, offers an urban spin on the spiritual practice of Tantric sex. Acknowledging the realities of a stressful life in the West, Carrellas has adapted a Tantric program that is easy to follow and practical to execute. With simple step by step instructions and refreshingly gender neutral and pansexual language, this book focuses on such topics as erotic awakening massage, twenty-minute Tantra, breath and energy orgasms, as well as Tantric power play. One breath in, one breath out, enjoy! 287pp. |
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| $22.99

With a Rough Tongue
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With a Rough Tongue
Femmes Write Porn
Edited by Amber Dawn and Trish Kelly
New queer tales written by daring femmes! These are not your typical lesbian erotica stories; in fact these begin where those left off. These are not delicate, romantic stories; instead, they challenge gender roles, hit you hard and make you think all at the same time! This is real smut, sexy and smart. 153pp. |
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| $21.95

Videos

Annie Sprinkle's Amazing World of Orgasm
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Annie Sprinkle's Amazing World of Orgasm DVD
A must see for sex educators, orgasm apprentices and full-time orgasmic aficionados. From high-profile artists to well-known “sexperts” like Dr. Carol Queen, Amazing World is a topsy-turvy tour of the wide variety of medical and cultural knowledge surrounding this often mystified bodily experience. Excellent! | more

| $29.00

Atomic Vixens
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Atomic Vixens DVD
Atomic Vixens is a well-shot and extremely colorful feature. This one is chock full of sexy retro babes in mind-blowingly gorgeous get-ups, and it doesn’t hurt when they disrobe either. Based loosely on the Austin Powers series and featuring a "comic book" theme, this new title rocks our whole indie section! | more

| $35.00

Bad Wives
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Bad Wives DVD
A story of husbands and wives, love and hate, and one really hot scene in a meat locker...it's got to be Paul Thomas. Known for high end productions, lots of steamy sex, and a focus on the relationships between people, Paul Thomas is one of porn's Golden Boys--and with Bad Wives he shows you why. This item is currently out of stock | more

| $29.00

Bend Over Boyfriend
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Bend Over Boyfriend DVD
Sexy sexologists Carol Queen and Robert Morgan discuss and demonstrate all aspects of male anal pleasure. Anatomy, pleasure points, health and safety, and the use of toys (such as strap-on dildos) are covered. This explicit, educational video includes two other couples and focuses mainly on women using strap-on dildos on their male partners. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $45.00

Buckback Mountain
staff pick no anal sex
Buckback Mountain DVD
A cowboy love story comes true in Buck Angel's Buckback Mountain. This epic, high budget film reveals the tender, sensous relationship that Buck begins with his summertime work partner in the picturesque desert. A little different than other Buck movies, this softer and less explicit plot-based film does not contain any anal sex. | more

| $35.00

Chemistry 2
staff pick shot in HD
Chemistry 2 DVD
But really? Can it be any better than the first? That’s for you to decide! Chemistry 2 is done in the same theme as the first, where big-name porn stars live in a house together for a couple of days to see what transpires…and it’s way hotter than you would even imagine! Tons of scenes with seriously scorching sex, way fun toys, and all the positions and situations your heart could desire. Done in a part documentary, part voyeuristic, part high budget style, it’s different from a lot of movies that are out there--in the best way possible. | more

| $40.00

Chemistry
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Chemistry DVD
We are huge fans of Tristan Taormino's work, especially when she directs. Her newest is based on a popular reality t.v. show, where we see seven of today's hottest stars cooped up for two days in a gorgeous mansion. No script, no plan, no plot -- anything goes. Tons of toys and more sexual scenarios than you could imagine! The first scene is fantastic, featuring a dynamic pairing between Marie Luv and Mr. Marcus; you'll see why this scorcher of a film is called "Chemistry". Tristan is the queen of explict porn that just features a lot of great sex between people who are having a good time. | more

| $35.00

Ebony XXX
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Ebony XXX DVD
Directed by female director, Domina X and featuring some great actors including the always fabulous, Lexington Steele, Ebony XXX is a top-notch porn title. Great natural lighting, fantastic dirty talk, and steamy lusty acting add to this great title featuring an all black cast. An all-around great DVD with lots of content but never lacking in quality. Includes some light female domination including one scene where Domina expertly dominates while directing behind the camera. | more

| $29.00

Ecstatic Moments
staff pick no anal sex
Ecstatic Moments DVD
A unique and intelligent production. The creators of Libido Magazine bring us an exiting new video starring among many Tristan Taormino, Shanna McCullogh and Carol Queen. Three vignettes of politics, desire and the complications of sex. Porn made for brain sex. | more

| $29.00

Fashionistas
staff pick contains BDSM
Fashionistas DVD
Now available uncensored in its full two DVD version (previously unavailable in Canada), the bestselling Fashionistas is over two and a half hours of great acting (Rocco & Belladonna give Oscar worthy turns as fashion designer and the under appreciated and insatiable assistant), hardcore sex, and inspired directing. Shot on 35 mm film, Fashionistas has snapped up every porn award available, and it’s worth the hype. This title contains S/M content. | more

| $35.00

Healing Sex
staff pick no anal sex
Healing Sex DVD
Healing Sex is a recovery program for those of us who have experienced trauma or sexual abuse in the past, and who want to take steps towards their own sexual wholeness. Through group therapy, one-on-one workshops and physical exercises, Staci Haines takes us on a path of recovery and discovery that is in-depth, step by step, and revolutionary. This two hour DVD tells the story of couples that are having trouble connecting sexually, and by using techniques of creating boundaries, dealing with triggers, and developing alternative forms of expression we see how these couples grow and begin to overcome their pain and difficulty. Interspersed with survivors and those who have healed talking about their own journey and how they have recovered, the viewer is taken on an emotional and uplifting path that is full of easy to follow and easy to practice exercises that are invaluable to not only survivors, but their partners as well. Diverse cast with diverse sexualities. Also available: the book Healing Sex, also written by Staci Haines. | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $50.00

No Tell Motel
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No Tell Motel DVD
See who checks in and out of the No Tell Motel! This film is 4 hours of non stop sex, with 20 scenes in all. Featuring an all star line-up such as Jenna Jameson, Kylie Ireland, and Stephanie Swift (among others), this sexy romp is a turn on throughout. Heterosexual focus. | more

| $29.00

Skintight
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Skintight DVD
An artist who can’t get her creative juices flowing receives an anonymous box of body paints that inspire her creations to take on lives of their own. In Skintight, painted bodies come to life as their flesh and desire is revealed, much to the delight of their fellow actors and the audience. Featuring diverse sex scenes, a light plot, and actors who are clearly enjoying themselves. | more

| $29.00

Superfreak
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Superfreak DVD
You'll definitely wish you were invited to this party! Fresh, feisty and fun indie lesbian porn is at its finest in Superfreak, from the director that brought us the best-selling title, Crash Pad. Loaded with gritty sexual magnetism and true-to-life action, we follow Madison Young to a steamy soiree which quickly turns into a slew of all-out sex sessions around every corner. The spirit of Rick James turning people on is a cute and campy theme throughout, but there's nothing cute or campy about the seriously sexy situations these gals take on. | more

| $35.00

The Buck Stops Here
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The Buck Stops Here DVD
The box cover isn't lying when it announces, "You've gotta see Buck!". There is literally something for everyone. Buck Angel does it all and more in this super hot movie that pays no regard to "traditional" or "typical" gender roles. He also won the 2007 AVN Award for Transexual Performer of the Year. Fun, realistic, and sexy. | more

| $40.00

The Opening of Misty Beethoven
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The Opening of Misty Beethoven DVD
Directed by Radley Metzger (under his porn name Henry Paris) this film was the unanimous selection for best porn film of the year when it first came out in 1976. Beautifully shot and acted, his porn version of Pygmalion is a rariety, a porn film you’ll watch from beginning to end (with possible pauses in the middle)! Gets our top recommendations for anyone looking for well directed and acted porn with storyline and genuinely hot sex. This item is currently out of stock | more

| $29.00

Zazel
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Zazel DVD
An absolute visual treat, Zazel tells the story of a woman creating a new perfume. As her imagination unfolds, a fantastical world evolves of nymphs, devils, goddesses and sensual delights. Zazel is truly a classic in the making! Art porn that doesn't sacrifice the porn. Now available in a brand new 2-disc edition, remastered in HD widescreen, and featuring bonus scenes and a sneak preview for Zazel 2! This item is currently out of stock | more Free Canadian shipping on this item!

| $45.00

Workshops

Kinky Tantra
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Kinky Tantra
With Barbara Carrellas
In this workshop, you'll learn how simple Tantric techniques such as breath, laughter, ritual, presence, and conscious connection can be included in a BDSM scene to intensify pleasure and expand consciousness. Barbara will explain why Tantra and BDSM-both energy-focused sexual paths are more similar than you may think. She will also answer your individual questions about how Tantric techniques can take your scene to the next level. Although this is not an introductory BDSM workshop, it will provide people who are new to BDSM with a powerful introduction to the energetic and ecstatic possibilities of BDSM.

Tuesday, June 1th, 2010, 7:30 – 10:00PM (All genders welcome.)
Where: Come As You Are
Cost:$35/person (Sliding Scale Available) | more

| $35.00

Urban Tantra Workshop
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Urban Tantra Workshop
Tantric Connections for Couples
With Barbara Carrellas
Urban Tantra is an approach to sacred sexuality that adapts and blends conscious sexuality practices from Tantra to S/M into a hot and healing brand of sex for the 21st century sensualist. In this workshop you'll learn Tantric techniques for building and sharing sexual energy with a partner. Simple techniques such as breath, laughter, ritual, movement, and conscious touch can expand our concept of gender roles, help us transcend fears of intimacy, and enable us to build and share enormous amounts of sexual and spiritual energy and power.

Monday, May 31st, 2010, 7:30 - 10:00pm (Couples only - all orientations welcome.)
Where: Come As You Are
Cost:$35/person (Sliding Scale Available) | more

| $35.00

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