Dear CAYA -
I love scissoring with my partner, but we find our Magic Wand Original tends to get in the way during sex and just doesn't sit nicely between us. Surely there's something better out there for scissoring positions! Is there something that will stimulate both clitorises (clitori?) and stay in place reasonably well.
- Scissor Sister
Dearest Scissor Sister,
There's almost nothing we love more than hearing about folks keeping their sex positions - and sex toys - creative and interesting, and scissoring is one of our fave positions for folks of all genders!
We've road tested a few vibes designed specifically for scissoring, but like most of the sex toys we audition, we haven't actually found one that works as promised! So many sex toys are designed by companies who aren't really thinking about how toys get used by real people in real life. Sadly, most sex toy manufacturers think more about marketability over functionality and at best, they produce sex toys that don't work and at worst they make sex toys that are downright dangerous.
However, there are lots of great external toys that work really well in all sorts of positions including scissoring. Our fave for this particular position is the We-Vibe Wish. The Wish has a super generous surface area that will contour nicely along the body, and the silicone is soft and spongey enough that it stays-put without feeling weird or tacky. It won't be as powerful as your Magic Wand Original, but then almost nothing reaches the amazing vibration level of the Magic Wand Original (except the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Plus, of course).
The Je Joue Mimi could also be a great option, but you may find it bit on the small side to pleasure both partners or too firm to stay in place whilst engaged in vigourous activity! However, the Je Joue Mimi has the same small but powerful rumbly vibrator as the Je Joue Uma so it definitely pushes enough power to keep everyone satisfied!!